By MARILYN SHAPIRO
Eric Lagerstrom, a 29 year old from Gresham, Ore., may have been the official male top finisher in the 2018 St. Anthony’s Triathlon, which was held on a beautiful April day in St. Petersburg, Fla. However, in the pack of over 3,000 participants was an individual that many considered the true winner. Seventy-nine year old Tony Handler had just completed his 300th triathlon since his “terminal” diagnosis 35 years earlier. “I beat Mr. Cancer again,” said Tony with satisfaction. Physical accomplishments like this are a great way to take back control when you feel that you have been a victim of the health lottery. Triathlons in particular are a challenging accomplishment, and if you wish to take part in one you can have online triathlon coaching now. So why not give it a go?
Waiting at the finish line, as she had done almost every time before, was his wife, Narda, his childhood sweetheart from Newark, N. J. “I think I missed only five races in his entire triathlon career,” said Narda.
None of this had seemed like it would be a possibility 35 years earlier. In 1983 Tony was driving Narda and friends home from an evening out with friends when he was seized by excruciating abdominal pains. His friend took over the wheel and drove Tony directly to the hospital. The doctors in the emergency room determined that his stomach had ruptured and operated.
Death Around Corner?
Two days after the surgery, he was transferred to the National Institutes of Health (NIH) in Bethesda, Md. The doctors there gave the Handlers devastating news: Tony had pancreatic cancer and had at best, two years to live.
Tony, then in his early 40s, refused to accept the diagnosis. After several more surgeries, he was chosen to participate in clinical trials at NIH with 19 other patients who shared his rare form of cancer. A willing “human guinea pig,” Tony endured hours of medical protocols, innumerable experimental drug treatments, and seven surgeries. While undergoing the regimen, Tony saw an article that stated that the city of Baltimore was hosting the Bud Lite Triathlon in July 1985. “I thought this would be a good way for me to fight the bleak prognosis.”
Against the Odds!
Tony was not new to athletic competitions. Born in 1939 in Newark to Jewish parents, he had participated in Weequahic High School’s cross country and swim teams, serving as the latter’s captain. Cheering him on in the stands was Narda Mandell. Shortly after his bar mitzvah at Congregation B’nai Jeshrun in Newark, Tony had met 12-year-old Narda and they soon became a couple. “I was—and still am—his biggest fan,” asserts Narda.
After Narda completed high school and Tony completed his stint in the army, Tony and Narda were married on Sept. 27, 1959. Narda worked as a receptionist in a bank until their first son was born.
In 1960, Tony was hired by IBM and spent the next 12 years working and going to Rutgers at night to earn a business degree. Tony received a promotion to IBM’s to its Washington D.C. office, and they moved to Crofton, Md.
By 1983, they were living what appeared to be an idyllic life and that was when their world was turned upside down.
Tony was determined to survive. He set his goal to compete in the 1985 Bud Lite Triathlon. Initially, he could only do a slow walk/run. As his stamina increased, he began running two, five, and 10 miles. “Running made me feel as if I were fighting back,” said Tony. He dusted off his bike and rode the Maryland countryside. He found a local pool, donned goggles and a Speedo, and began swimming competitive laps for the first time since his high school swim team days.
“Mr. Cancer”—The Main Competition
On July 1, 1985, Tony completed the Baltimore triathlon, which combined a one-mile swim, 24.8 miles of bicycling and 6.2 miles of running. Tony was far behind the winning time of one hour and 55 minutes, but he had won a personal victory. “I only had one competitor,” said Tony, “and that was Mr. Cancer.”
Unfortunately, Mr. Cancer wasn’t done with Tony. He faced multiple bouts with six different kinds of cancer, including pancreatic, liver, prostate, and skin cancers, and 21 surgeries.
Through it all, Tony continued his job as an IBM consultant. The management at the company was supportive, never hesitating in giving the time he needed to have the multiple surgeries and for recovery.
After work and on weekends he continued to work out and participate in triathlons across the U.S. “I needed victories wherever I could find them,” said Tony. “Every time I crossed that finish line, I felt like I beat Mr. Cancer again.”
The Marathon Continues
In 1988 Tony received a promotion to senior consultant and was transferred to Tampa, Fla, where he continued to compete.
By the time he was approaching his 60th birthday, Tony had completed 200 triathlons. He set his goal even higher by signing up for the 2000 Florida Ironman Triathlon. A back injury that was unrelated to cancer forced him to cancel. But in 2001, he completed the Panama City-based competition, which was composed of a 2.4-mile swim, a 112-mile bicycle ride and a marathon —26.2 mile run. He felt such a sense of accomplishment, that he did it again when he was 62.
When he retired from IBM in 2003, Tony and Narda moved to Solivita, a 55 plus active adult community located in central Florida.
Playing It Forward
As a cancer survivor, Tony was determined to “pay it forward.” Soon after their move, he organized the first annual community-wide three-mile walk/run in Solivita to raise money for the American Cancer Society (ACS). Beginning in 2012, several Solivita clubs joined together to establish an annual Relay for Life event that supported ACS. Tony’s run/walk was folded into the community’s umbrella fund-raising efforts. As of 2018, the combined efforts have raised over $700,000, of which $60,000 was raised by Tony’s walk/run event.
His story of survival and his fund-raising have earned Tony state and national recognition. In 2013, Tony qualified to compete in the National Triathlon Age Group Championship in Milwaukee. At the concluding banquet, Tony was given an award for being the “Most Inspirational Athlete.” In 2015, he qualified to represent the United States on Team USA at the World Age Group Triathlon Championship in Chicago.
In 2016, Tony was the recipient of the Geriathlete” award at the Growing Bolder Awards banquet in Orlando, Fla. He, along with other Central Florida seniors, was lauded for “pursuing his passions and living lives of purpose while making a difference in the lives of others.
Determination And Exercise
Sadly, Tony is the only surviving participant of the 20 original participants in the 1983 NIH clinical trials. Doctors at the Moffitt Cancer Center continue to track Tony’s progress and oversee his life-saving medications and monthly chemo injections. His remarkable medical history has been a subject in professional journals and conferences. Researchers agree that what Tony often calls his “crazy exercise routine” appears to have been a factor in his longevity.
Tony views the St. Anthony’s Triathlon as another victory against Mr. Cancer, a fight he hopes to continue waging for as long as his body is able to.
“I beat the odds,” said Tony. “I just hope my story is an inspiration to other cancer patients to “Never Give Up.”
Marilyn Shapiro, formerly of Clifton Park, is now a resident of Kissimmee, Fla. A compilation of articles printed in The Jewish World, There Goes My Heart, is available. Marilyn Shapiro’s blog is theregoesmyheart.me.